Gift Registry Trends

Now and again the question comes up: The couple has everything and does not want to register for gifts. What do they do? Here are some options.

• Set up on online account to have guests donate to your favorite charity.

• Ask guests to bring a special gift, such as books or bath items and donate them to your local women’s shelter.

• Keep in mind that gift-giving is always done at the behest of the guest. So don’t get all in a huff if someone chooses to purchase a gift anyway.

• Set up a registry with just a limited number of items. This is for your elder guests who may prefer to go the traditional route of gift-giving.

• Be mindful of the causes you select and donate to. It’s best to avoid what can be considered hot-button or controversial issues. Examples are stem-cell research, same-sex marriage, marijuana legalization or abortion. Keep it on an even keel and geared more toward world issues that help people for health and living.

Elaine Swann is a San Diego-based lifestyle and etiquette expert. Considered an authority on etiquette and lifestyle practices, Elaine’s advice has been called upon by ABC, NBC, CBS, KUSI and Wealth TV. She’s been featured on radio programs and print publications such as Modern Bride Magazine, the San Diego Weekly Reader and more. You can explore free tips and etiquette advice at ElaineSwann.com.

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